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fantasiamore 67F
7864 posts
1/4/2018 2:58 am

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1/15/2018 2:47 pm

ON HEALING A BROKEN HEART

True love and being heartbroken about it is such a happy and painful emotional bearing. That's some truth no one will probably refute. The negative effect is treading cautiously if there is a next time. Greater apprehension and the fear of risking again becomes embedded in the heart and mind. It will not be easy to trust and give love away again. How strongly can one feel positive about the matter? Here's a good advice.




“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


fantasiamore 67F
10986 posts
1/4/2018 3:01 am

love can both be positive and negative at the same time.

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


monet 48F
22 posts
1/4/2018 6:44 am

a nice advise <3 ...well i never regretted loving someone but i regretted the time wasted loving him when all those years i should have given my time and love to someone who is more worthy of it . but i'm still thankful that he brought some happiness to my life amidst the lies


fantasiamore 67F
10986 posts
1/4/2018 3:21 pm

    Quoting monet:
    a nice advise <3 ...well i never regretted loving someone but i regretted the time wasted loving him when all those years i should have given my time and love to someone who is more worthy of it . but i'm still thankful that he brought some happiness to my life amidst the lies
hi monet..good to see you commenting here at bloglandia..appreciate it..happy to meet you..you can call me tajane as most got used to calling me here..

we all have gone through the same path i guess..that is mostly the reason why we are at this dating site..i've been here since i was 53 yos and that is certainly more than a decade....growing old in this site, made me find friends who still belong to my circle (became close friends) up to now..i maybe one of those unlucky ones to find the real true love from this site..but no regrets and you can see am still around..i love blogging one reason and the most important one, i found good friends here.

i met one true love once upon a time here, but got disappointed eventually, although i should be thankful that our relationship got best ended, so he doesn't have to keep on fibbing and weaving lies to me..

hope to see more of you here at bloglandia...have a great year ahead!


“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


flower_boy2014 34M
13 posts
1/4/2018 5:39 pm

I fix broken hearts


fantasiamore 67F
10986 posts
1/4/2018 8:07 pm

am sure someone is reading you....and may come to ask your help...

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


monet 48F
22 posts
1/6/2018 9:26 am

    Quoting fantasiamore:
    hi monet..good to see you commenting here at bloglandia..appreciate it..happy to meet you..you can call me tajane as most got used to calling me here..

    we all have gone through the same path i guess..that is mostly the reason why we are at this dating site..i've been here since i was 53 yos and that is certainly more than a decade....growing old in this site, made me find friends who still belong to my circle (became close friends) up to now..i maybe one of those unlucky ones to find the real true love from this site..but no regrets and you can see am still around..i love blogging one reason and the most important one, i found good friends here.

    i met one true love once upon a time here, but got disappointed eventually, although i should be thankful that our relationship got best ended, so he doesn't have to keep on fibbing and weaving lies to me..

    hope to see more of you here at bloglandia...have a great year ahead!
hi tajane(thanks for letting me in in your circle )...cannot help but share my thoughts..well i'm just a silent reader here, i just love reading blogs that the members share and not to mention that there is nothing left for me to do here in this site than view other profiles and chat in public (the free privilege a regular member can avail unlike before). Ooops tajane I was also a member of this site a long long time ago haha..I became a member when i was 34 and now nearing my golden age and still haven't found the one . he is too elusive!! . Let's hope for a great and lovely year for all of us!!! more blogs and more insights ahead! God bless!


fantasiamore 67F
10986 posts
1/8/2018 1:24 am

    Quoting monet:
    hi tajane(thanks for letting me in in your circle )...cannot help but share my thoughts..well i'm just a silent reader here, i just love reading blogs that the members share and not to mention that there is nothing left for me to do here in this site than view other profiles and chat in public (the free privilege a regular member can avail unlike before). Ooops tajane I was also a member of this site a long long time ago haha..I became a member when i was 34 and now nearing my golden age and still haven't found the one . he is too elusive!! . Let's hope for a great and lovely year for all of us!!! more blogs and more insights ahead! God bless!
so we are having the same trail so far...lol!...maybe, the right and good guys in this sight have become so few that we don't find them anymore...that, most are just out to have good fun chatting and finding online leisure only..include too that more fictitious profiles and scammers are out in this site, trying to bait for money..which is also be equated by a number of pinay members, who are doing the same..a sordid state indeed! the old FFF was a lot better..the once-upon-a-time members will surely agree with me, in saying the same...

i must opine blogging here will be best for now...

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


Bizzysback 57F
973 posts
1/8/2018 2:48 am

Like the old adage, It's better to have love and lost than never to have love at all.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


monet 48F
22 posts
1/8/2018 6:53 am

    Quoting fantasiamore:
    so we are having the same trail so far...lol!...maybe, the right and good guys in this sight have become so few that we don't find them anymore...that, most are just out to have good fun chatting and finding online leisure only..include too that more fictitious profiles and scammers are out in this site, trying to bait for money..which is also be equated by a number of pinay members, who are doing the same..a sordid state indeed! the old FFF was a lot better..the once-upon-a-time members will surely agree with me, in saying the same...

    i must opine blogging here will be best for now...
hahaha i guess so tajane but you are steps ahead of me because you happen to find one on this site . yep...there are a lot of scammers here now..and they are the ones who can afford to pay the membership . FFF is dying on its own, gone are the free messages and IM's for it's regular members. you need to pay now to enjoy all it's apps. . So let us just enjoy the free blogging to communicate before they start asking for fee?


fantasiamore 67F
10986 posts
1/8/2018 8:48 am

    Quoting Bizzysback:
    Like the old adage, It's better to have love and lost than never to have love at all.
hello che! good and great to see you back to reading me...happy new year dearest friend!

true to have felt and lost love and to do it all over again is one great mystery of life...though the bliss is always there it is coupled always with hurts because life is a dual process of good and bad..there is always that balance..no perfection for what can also be imperfection...just need to accept what is there and take the good side of what became bad...

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


fantasiamore 67F
10986 posts
1/8/2018 8:52 am

    Quoting monet:
    hahaha i guess so tajane but you are steps ahead of me because you happen to find one on this site . yep...there are a lot of scammers here now..and they are the ones who can afford to pay the membership . FFF is dying on its own, gone are the free messages and IM's for it's regular members. you need to pay now to enjoy all it's apps. . So let us just enjoy the free blogging to communicate before they start asking for fee?
they do pay to play around..for as long as there are ladies who find what they are doing acceptable i guess the trade stays..just don't be caught in their world of make believes...and never, never expect that they can change that, just laugh them off...

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


theta2011 47F
1898 posts
1/15/2018 5:19 am

Tajane, you are truly one loving person with a big heart. Just keep on loving,
thats somehow makes life worth living..I believe it is still the greatest mission on earth - propagate love. and I, thank you.


eb1209
28210 posts
1/15/2018 9:56 am

Jane, there is just too much parallelism between us...It is very easy to relate

Just call me ELZ


fantasiamore 67F
10986 posts
1/15/2018 2:46 pm

    Quoting theta2011:
    Tajane, you are truly one loving person with a big heart. Just keep on loving,
    thats somehow makes life worth living..I believe it is still the greatest mission on earth - propagate love. and I, thank you.
hey kiddie sis..love seeing you here again..the place has become alive again..bring on those postings...missing you and your posts...

i can agree with you on point about love..love is easy but then again not so easy too...

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


fantasiamore 67F
10986 posts
1/15/2018 2:47 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Jane, there is just too much parallelism between us...It is very easy to relate
oh my...when do we get to see how beautiful it can be...emotionally and can i say physically too? lol

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.