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Bizzysback 57F
1502 posts
5/19/2014 12:10 pm
Why will someone you’re chatting to, will suddenly stop without adieu?

FRUSTRATION (Repost)

Have you ever experienced chatting to someone then suddenly he/she is gone?. You see, I started chatting with this guy after 1 week of our long hours of daily chat over a cup of coffee he suddenly did not turn up, no bye whatsoever. Hey wait a minute what did just happen? Was I talking to a real man or a con? I hope I was smart enough not to give him much of my personal information but with modern technology that can be easily traced to.

Have you ever done one of those on line surveys when in the middle you decided , oh darn, I don’t like to do this anymore and then close the window. Then another popped out window will appear: “ are you sure you want to leave this page?” then you click yes or exit. Ah, now I feel like the survey window. At least the survey was given the chance to have a better exit. What about me? I deserve to be ask or to ask if he really want to quit the chat and maybe beg him not to go, please stay. LOL. Now I will never look at the survey windows the same ever again.

Frustration sets in, why will he do that? Was it me? Was it something I said? I thought he was a decent man. I was duped. A decent man should be able to say goodbye or say his mind and not just leave you hanging like that. What’s wrong with this people? Why can’t you say nice chatting to you, I am going to hang myself now, bye. Simple as that. Just joking if somebody tells that to me I will be sleepless better not say anything than that.

I have met a lot of people from different walks of life they will say at least later when they go if I am not around they will send message to let me know that they’re gone. I just can’t understand and it’s frustrating. I don’t really care if he doesn’t message me back I don’t what to chat with him after that.

Were you ever been in the same boat as me in this one? Have you ever done the same thing? Why? Common tell us don’t be shy. By the way this is not in FFF but he may be here too, who knows? If you are, nice chatting to you decent guy


Fun Friendly Poll

Why will someone you’re chatting to, will suddenly stop
without adieu?
A. He ran out of credit on his internet and still waiting for his pay check to load.
B. His wife or girlfriend suddenly found out he’s chatting with someone.
C. He found someone else to chat to.
D. He found me boring.
E. He realised he’s not gonna go to second base.
F. He had a heart attack during your chat sessions.
G. He confirmed his suspicion that he knows you personally and don’t want to reveal himself.
J. He/she is a rusty mouldy fake.
His boss found out and he was fired
Other reason


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fantasiamore 66F
10986 posts
5/21/2014 4:12 pm

there are a lot of fakes in the internet world..one day you meet him and he gets himself to do a regular chat with you, lording over the many others that he's engaged chatting with before he met you...after finding out you are someone who he can' twist, in so many chats, there you go, he's lost in oblivision!...but if you said am game and patiently listens to his BS, now that is totally a different story!!!

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


sunshiny_f 64F
1221 posts
5/22/2014 9:11 am

Hi Bizzy,

They stopped chattng simply because you didnt give in to their whims or simply he was just looking for another specimen! ha ha ha.

so be careful in dealing with people here with other motives...

dont lose ur heart with these kind of people.They don't deserve ur time and attention!

Cheers!

susan


Bizzysback 57F
962 posts
5/22/2014 2:45 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore:
    there are a lot of fakes in the internet world..one day you meet him and he gets himself to do a regular chat with you, lording over the many others that he's engaged chatting with before he met you...after finding out you are someone who he can' twist, in so many chats, there you go, he's lost in oblivision!...but if you said am game and patiently listens to his BS, now that is totally a different story!!!
Ta Jane yes sadly I have met few fakes too I wonder how many more will I meet. I hate fake items so I don't buy them I'd rather buy a no name item or not buy at all than have a fake brand so what more if it's a fake person.

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fantasiamore 66F
10986 posts
5/22/2014 3:49 pm

    Quoting Bizzysback:
    Hmmm? I wonder who are those two? Is that Jorge and San Miguel?
there are only these info i am concluding, if i may butt in...

jorge is not taken, but with the many friends he has, it would be a fight among the ladies to have him...lol!

san_miguel aka _dimasalang_ aka many other handles he possesses, i will say he appears to be taken, many seem to find a fancy for him as well, hence this one and only claimer, always out in the open, trying to give us a good background (is it really good?) on what he is...

and i can say they are MEN...REAL MEN, that is...no runaway beaus! am not voicing from experience with them, but because i can trust them...

btw, when you come meet with me, let's have it over lunch with some of the bloggers here, which should include jorge, hope he can find time for it..not unless you want it one-on-one, not with me, but with him...


“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


Bizzysback 57F
962 posts
5/23/2014 6:28 am

    Quoting iris2013:
    Hi Bizzy
    This is the only time I will respond to this. They are from fff yes. But NO it was neither of the men you mentioned.

    Jorge is a very nice guy but has never emailed me. The other guy "San Miguel" I do not know him no matter what name he goes by.

    The info I gave was of chats I had a good while ago. I would appreciate it if you don't try to guess as it would hurt if you mentioned innocent men here again.

    I don't feel it's appropriate to mention their names just because they stopped speaking to me in y or email out of the blue. That is what your post was about so I felt it was important to mention it.
    Now I feel it was a mistake to have said it So I apologize for doing so. Unfortunately I can't take it back. Although you can delete my response from your end. I would appreciate that.

    Sorry again for my mistake here. Take care and have a great day my friend. I always enjoy reading your post and responding.
    Iris
Im so sorry Iris I might have put you in an uncomfortable situation. It was just a joke with Jorge and San Miguel. I will delete my post and yours. Sorry again.

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Bizzysback 57F
962 posts
5/25/2014 9:25 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore:
    there are only these info i am concluding, if i may butt in...

    jorge is not taken, but with the many friends he has, it would be a fight among the ladies to have him...lol!

    san_miguel aka _dimasalang_ aka many other handles he possesses, i will say he appears to be taken, many seem to find a fancy for him as well, hence this one and only claimer, always out in the open, trying to give us a good background (is it really good?) on what he is...

    and i can say they are MEN...REAL MEN, that is...no runaway beaus! am not voicing from experience with them, but because i can trust them...

    btw, when you come meet with me, let's have it over lunch with some of the bloggers here, which should include jorge, hope he can find time for it..not unless you want it one-on-one, not with me, but with him...

Ta Jane yes please lets meet if u want to organize that. I can't have one on one with Jorge I might fall in love with him! I'm a weakling I fall in love easily.

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Bizzysback 57F
962 posts
5/28/2014 1:46 am

    Quoting sunshiny_f:
    Hi Bizzy,

    They stopped chattng simply because you didnt give in to their whims or simply he was just looking for another specimen! ha ha ha.

    so be careful in dealing with people here with other motives...

    dont lose ur heart with these kind of people.They don't deserve ur time and attention!

    Cheers!

    susan
Thanks Sun, I actually found out why, in this case he was hitting on my friend that he did not know was a true friend. The answer in this case was that he found someone else to chat to or to pursue but on top of that he was also a fake , a lot of what he said were lies. Definitely not worth my time. It was just a funny story now. Very funny to me.

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Bizzysback 57F
962 posts
5/29/2014 3:42 am

    Quoting Pixel456:
    Oh my gosh, why the grief on a virtual guy biz? LOL. the trick is, never to take this site seriously.

    Take it from me.
Hey Pix thanks for visiting, not a grief at all but I was just sharing, this is actually an old post from my old handle I reposted it because something similar happened. It was actually a very funny one I can tell u more next time we chat. Sine you found time to visit the blog can I recommend that you read my other blog "Will you quit smoking for your loved ones?" I am banned from chat for 24 hours.

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peanut784 55M
1 post
6/2/2014 4:30 pm

I foud out that it is a Filipina way to things like that ...


Bizzysback 57F
962 posts
6/3/2014 3:09 am

    Quoting peanut784:
    I foud out that it is a Filipina way to things like that ...
Looks like you had same experience as me. I think the Filipina you met do not like something you do that's why she stopped chatting to you. Too bad that she did not have the guts to tell you. Sorry it was not me, I could have told you.

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Bizzysback 57F
962 posts
6/3/2014 3:12 am

    Quoting skydancer4u:
    Bizz hi there...i think net chatting or socializing is only a fantasy unless one meets them in person or group eb's then it's more a reality...I for one found a great success in net dating coz i make an effort meeting them in group eb's
I agree to that sky and yes I have met some who are just into fantasy which I have shared about in my other blogs like the one titled "Is Tougher Wiser?" Thanks for visiting.

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Bizzysback 57F
962 posts
6/20/2014 7:44 pm

    Quoting Socalguy951:
    Usually it's one of three (or four) things...

    1. They are fake. About 3 out of every 4 Filipina's (I keep a running tally..haha) will invariably ask me for money to "help" out with various things. When i decline and tell them i'm not a Western Union boyfriend, that's usually the last i hear from them.

    2. They're bored.

    3. Their significant other found out.

    4. They ran out of money because of the 1st reason...haha
Sorry to hear about your experience socal, so how many have u tallied so far?

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amorevf 70M
4 posts
6/25/2014 7:12 am

STop trying to rationalize nonsense matters


amorevf 70M
4 posts
6/25/2014 7:13 am

Learn more about your own thinking before you open your silly mouths saying stupid thoughts about persoanality, chatters, or any other topic


amorevf 70M
4 posts
6/25/2014 7:21 am

hOPE IN FUTURE THE CONTENT MATURES AND SINCE ITS YOUR PAGE, ITS UP TO YOU TO MODERSATE N SHED LIGHT ON THE TOPIC WITH RESEARCHED INFORMATION
not on mere baseless opinion . CHeers


Bizzysback replies on 6/26/2014 12:01 am:
Amorevf,
Thanks for visiting and taking time to comment. This blog is merely an experience that I wanted to share and find out if others had same experienced and this is only about ONE person I met it's not a generalization. There's no need to research about it I was just telling a story, If you read my other blogs I do research and I don't just open my silly mouth like you said. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I don't judge anyone based on that.

Bizzysback 57F
962 posts
6/25/2014 11:45 pm

    Quoting malou563:
    I found my Mr Right here and weve been married for nearly 6 years now and were both happy.As a matter of fact this August is our 6 years and we are going for a cruise in Bahamas for 4 nights.So excited and then next year we will renew our vows.I am so lucky to have him as my husband,he is a caring man, buys me everything I want hehehehe,treats me with respect.Not all men in this site are serious maybe im just lucky that I met my hubby here and be together for the rest of our lives.Dont give up who knows he is just around the corner waiting for you guys.
Wow you're inspiring Malou, congratulations and thanks for visiting and taking time to comment. These blog is just about an experience with one guy that puzzled me that's all I have met other really nice people.

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amorevf 70M
4 posts
6/27/2014 7:40 am

STOP BRAGGING LIKE A SPOILED BRAT... IT CERTAINLY ISNT EDUCATIONAL OR ENTERTAINING


Bizzysback 57F
962 posts
6/29/2014 5:26 pm

    Quoting amorevf:
    STOP BRAGGING LIKE A SPOILED BRAT... IT CERTAINLY ISNT EDUCATIONAL OR ENTERTAINING
OMG , I don't know what are you so angry about? What did I do or say to upset you so badly? You don't even know me but if that's what you think I shall let you be.

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